Memo to Wu.

It does not work that way, Michelle.

You, the mayor of Boston, do not ask the President of the United States to meet with you. You ask to meet with him.

That is what leaders of countries around the world do when they want to sit down with President Donald Trump, the most powerful leader in the world. They ask to come to the White House.

Volodymyr Zelenskyy comes to Washington. Trump does not go to Kyiv.

It is also the way Zohran Mamdani, the Democrat Socialist mayor-elect of New York, got to meet with Trump in the White House last week. He asked for the meeting.

Now, if you were Kevin White, the late flamboyant four-term (1967-1984) imperial mayor of Boston, who considered himself a national figure, it might be different.

Not for nothing was he dubbed “the Mayor of America.”

He also had the swagger to pull such a public relations stunt off.

When he finally left office, he did not leave any swagger behind. He took it with him, which is why no mayor since “Kevin from Heaven” has matched his national renown.

But that was four mayors (and one acting mayor) ago, and times have changed.

Swagger is out and socialism is in, and socialism makes for strange bedfellows.

Also, socialists have no swagger because they, like panhandlers, are always looking for a handout.

Which is why Mamdani, a Muslim Democrat Socialist, got to the White House to meet with Christian Republican capitalist President Trump. He went in search of a handout.

Talk about the odd couple: a capitalist who made millions through an open and free market economy and a socialist who wants to take those millions away to distribute to people who did not earn them.

Yet they had something in common, and it was that both are winners.

Despite all odds, both came from behind to win campaigns few thought they could– Trump back in 2016 and 2024 and Mamdani in 2025.

Trump likes winners. And despite Mamdani’s off-the-wall socialism, Trump was impressed with Mamdani’s victory, noting how he doggedly rose in the polls as his New York campaign developed.

“He really ran an incredible race against some very tough people, smart people,” Trump said of his new friend. He added, “The better he does the happier I am.”

Michelle Wu also ran an incredible race, so incredible that she ended up with no November opponent after she trounced Josh Kraft in the primary and he threw in the towel.

But she got no kudos from Trump who probably did not notice in the first place. Boston, after all, Boston is no New York. No place is.

Wu, however, has been dogged and consistent in her criticism of Trump, particularly over his crackdown on illegal immigrants, criminal and otherwise in Boston, a sanctuary city.

Which she is entitled to do as mayor.

However, she is somewhat coy and disarming when it comes to visiting Trump at the White House.

She said, Kevin White-like, that she would turn down an initiation– that she did not get in the first place—and would only accept one t under her terms anyway.

“I would accept the invitation if it came with a promise to stop snatching residents illegally off the streets, stop prosecuting his (Trump’s) political enemies, stop cutting life-saving research and funding…Sure, I would be open to a conversation at that point.”

Kevin White would have added that the meeting take place at City Hall and not the White House.

But White took the swagger with him when he left the building.

Veteran political reporter Peter Lucas can be reached at: peter.lucas@bostonherald.com

The bronze statue of Mayor Kevin White by Pablo Eduardo overlooks City Hall. (Joe Dwinell/Boston Herald)